Memorial Day: One Week with Luke

We’ve been a family of five for seven full days now. It has been much as expected: tiring, a bit chaotic, full of stress, and laced with moments of pure bliss. Samantha is so eager to help, and Jake is unbelievably gentle. Luke has given us some longer stretches of sleep at night, which bodes well for the future.

Give me a few more days and I’ll be thinking and blogging about things in addition to Luke’s arrival. Until then, bear with me.

Luke Patrick: Photo Album

It’s Friday night. Luke is sleeping on the couch next to me, so Mom can grab a couple hours of sleep upstairs. It’s been a more active first few days than we’d hoped for. Luke and Kerri came home on Wednesday afternoon in fine health, but the in-home nurse visit on Thursday revealed an elevated bilirubin level. It had jumped from ten on Wednesday to 16 on Thursday.

Layman’s Medical Background

Bilirubin is a red bile pigment derived from the degradation of hemoglobin during the normal and abnormal destruction of red blood cells. Elevated bilirubin levels cause what is commonly known as jaundice, characterized by a yellowing of the skin. Other indications of jaundice are a yellowing of the eyes and lethargy.

Bilirubin usually excreted in stool, and since a newborn’s digestive system is still “warming up,” bilirubin can accumulate faster than the body can excrete it. The possibility for jaundice is slightly greater for a breast fed baby than for a formula fed baby. A mother’s milk doesn’t come in for a few days, so the digestive system takes longer to come up to speed than if the baby were taking in formula right from the beginning.

Bilirubin is tested for in the blood. A level of 15 is a warning threshold, and levels of 20 and higher are cause for some concern. UV light, helps to body to reabsorb or breakdown the bilirubin, buying time until the bowels can do their thing.

Luke’s First Travels

Luke’s pediatrician wanted to be pro-active, and nip things in the butt before we had any serious problems. Plan A was to get an in-home UV light, but none were available. We could only get a “bili-blanket,” which is a small flat UV light that the baby can lay on. Dr. K. doesn’t put much stock in a bili-blanket on its own, so she moved to Plan B, which was to admit Luke to the local children’s hospital where more intense UV treatment could occur.

Of course, the doctor must physically examine a patient before he or she can be admitted, presumably for insurance reasons. So, we quickly called Kerri’s sister to watch Samantha and Jake, who were in the middle of their naps. We rushed to the pediatrician’s office, which was about to close in order to get the examination which would allow us to turn around and head over to the hospital. By six in the evening, Luke was settled in and glowing under the blue lights.

Kerri stayed the night, while I tended to the home front. This means the woman who recently gave birth is now going on about eight hours of sleep for the week. <sarcasm>At least she was in one of those “oh-so-comfortable” hospital futons last night.</sarcasm>

I suppose it’s all worth the inconvenience. Luke’s bilirubin levels were back down to ten after 24 hours in his tanning booth. Everyone’s home and with the exception of me asleep. If this is Luke’s newborn scare, it’s a pretty easy one to deal with. God be with those who are facing so much worse.

Last thing: I added a photo album with some photos of Luke’s first day.
I lost my built in photo album when I switched to WordPress. But, I’ve added them to flickr here: Luke Patrick.

Welcome Luke Patrick

At 12:37PM on Monday, May 24, 2005 Luke Patrick Aldrich was welcomed into the world. Against the odds the recessive genes won the coin toss, and we have a blonde. Kerri and Luke are doing wonderfully. Samantha, Jacob and I couldn’t be happier. I’m going to get some film developed on Wednesday, but until then, here’s a link to the hospital’s baby gallery.

Home: Airport Express Arrives! [UPDATED]

[UPDATE: Just a status update on the DSL hookup.]

Last summer, when I got my iPod and iBook, I noticed that while I may not have looked any cooler, I sure felt it. Well, today, the bulk of my anniversary/birthday/father’s day gift arrived: an Airport Express base station. Again, I may still look like a bald-soon-to-be-thirty-year-old-soon-to-be-father-of-three; but I feel a helluva lot cooler on the inside. Fernando’s wisdom has always stuck with me: “It is better to look good than to feel good.”

Details of my fledgling network? Well, the DSL has been ordered, but it won’t be turned on for a couple weeks. In the mean time been hooked up - and a couple days ahead of the timetable set by SBC themselves! I have cleared space on the extra table in the dining room (A misnomer, really, since we don’t dine there; we use it as an office/craft room.) to give my iBook a home. The iPod dock was unhooked from the stereo receiver, and also moved to the dining room. The Airport Express has replaced made use of the mini Monster connection, so I am currently streaming iTunes throughout the house. (Drifting Blues from the album “More Music From ‘Ray’” by Ray Charles at the moment; Tryin’ To Throw Your Arms Around The World from the album “Achtung Baby” by U2 during the UPDATE) The iPod is free to leave the house once again, now that music will remain available via the iBook.

Ultimately, I may need to run a phone line to put everything in its place. Old houses are notoriously sparse on these sorts of modern conveniences. Thankfully Dad will be coming thru town in a few weeks to see his new grandson. I’m certain he’ll be glad to lend a hand. Enough cables were included in appropriate sized lengths to put almost everything where I want it. Only thing I can’t figure out is how to print wirelessly thru my Airport Express. I’m afraid I’ll have to break down and put the printer next to the laptop the old fashion way.

I’m almost ready to wallow freely in the Blogdom. Randy, if you’re reading this, pray for me. You saw what happened at the Red Roof Inn.

On a more serious note, there are a couple things I’m going to explore. I’ll be sure to let you know if anything comes of them.

grid blog :: Pentecost :: Spirit-stories

A couple weeks ago, we were discussing the RCL readings at house church, and one fact emerged: The Spirit brings a story. The Spirit’s work is inspiring, and people are lead to testify about what they have seen.

This week, I asked folks to contribute a Spirit-story or two to the grid blog. The first is from Darlene:

ONE DAY WHILE TALKING ON THE TELEPHONE TO MY SISTER’S MOTHER-IN-LAW SHE ASKED ME TO PRAY FOR SOME MEDICAL PROBLEMS SHE WAS EXPERIENCING. I TOLD HER I WOULD BE HAPPY TO PRAY FOR HER. WE WOULD TALK EVERY MONTH OR SO AS SHE LIVED OUT OF TOWN AND BEFORE OUR CONVERSATION ENDED SHE WOULD ALWAYS ASK FOR PRAYS FOR HER. ONE DAY WHEN WE TALKED AND SHE AGAIN ASKED FOR PRAYERS THE HOLY SPIRIT REALLY IMPRESSED ON ME TO PRAY FOR HER WHILE WE WERE TALKING. I’LL HAVE ALWAYS TOLD PEOPLE THAT I WOULD PRAY FOR THEM BUT NEVER TOOK THE TIME TO PRAY IN THE MOMENT. SHE WAS SO THANKFUL AND NOW EVERY TIME WE TALK SHE SAY’S WILL YOU PLEASE PRAY FOR ME, IT ALWAYS MAKES ME FEEL SO GOOD AND I GO TO SLEEP THINKING ABOUT YOUR PRAYER. MY PRAYER IS ALWAYS WHAT THE HOLY SPIRIT LEADS ME TO SAY AND I’M SO THANKFUL THAT I FOLLOWED THE LEADING OF THE HOLY SPIRIT BECAUSE NOT ONLY IS SHE BLESSED BUT I AM ALSO.

and the second from Heather:

MY HUSBAND AND I WERE TRYING TO HAVE A BABY FOR A WHILE AND WE RECEIVED SOME DISCOURAGING NEWS FROM OUR DR. - THAT WE HAD LESS THAN A 25% CHANCE OF EVER GETTING PREGNANT. RIGHT AFTER RECEIVING THIS NEWS WE WERE TO GO ON A TRIP TO FLORIDA TO VISIT MY HUSBAND’S PARENTS WHO WERE VACATIONING THERE. WE ALMOST CANCELED THE TRIP, BUT DECIDED TO GO. WE SHARED THE NEWS WITH MY HUSBAND’S PARENTS AND THEY PRAYED WITH US THAT NIGHT. TRULY, THE SPIRIT WAS AT WORK BECAUSE IT WAS MOST LIKELY THAT NIGHT WE CONCEIVED OUR SON. SINCE THEN WE HAVE BEEN BLESSED WITH A SECOND SON WHO IS TO BE BORN JULY OR AUGUST 2005. AS PSALM 104:30 SAYS “WHEN YOU SEND YOUR SPIRIT, THEY ARE CREATED, AND YOU RENEW THE FACE OF THE EARTH” - THIS IS MY PRAYER FOR MY BOYS, THAT MANY WILL COME TO KNOW CHRIST BECAUSE OF THEM AND THAT THE LORD WILL RENEW THE EARTH THROUGH SPIRITUAL REBIRTH.

Book Club: God’s Politics: Chapter 14: Poor People Are Trapped - in the Debate About Poverty

Let me start with this quote:

We have astounding statistics like these: One of every six children in America is poor (13 million children in America!), 36 million people live below the poverty line (more people than live in any state, including California, 4 million families are hungry to the point where people in the household are skipping meals (and three times that number are “food insecure,” meaning at some time during the year they have difficulty providing enough food for members of their family), 45 million Americans are without health insurance - including 8.4 million children, and 15 million families have critical housing needs as affordable housing disappears, rents and housing prices soar, and homelessness is on the rise - especially for families in urban areas.1

If anything, these statistics underestimate the problem, since what constitutes the “poverty line” hasn’t been adjusted for forty years. In 2003, it stood at $18.810 for a family of four.

I have to say, that Wallis’ premise - that the poor have been reduced to pawn in the chess game of political power - is one I have felt. The campaign trail is the most obvious place. Candidates pull out names and stories, like John Hernandez, an assembly line worker in Iowa whose job has been moved to Mexico, and Elizabeth Johnson, a single mom in Pennsylvania who is trying to raise her three children while she finishes night school. (These two people are imaginary.) I assume that the people mentioned in the speeches are real, but something about the was they get mentioned seems deceptive. It seems like the politician is simply throwing them a bone, a 30-second sound bite they can tell their friends about, while making an emotional play for their own benefit.

Question: Can politicians talk about the poor without sounding like they are merely using the poor?

Wallis continues the pattern established earlier in the book. He attacks the false choices offered by Democrats and Republicans; and he exhorts people of faith to remain free while they pursue genuine solutions. He talks at some length about the present political discourse. Conservatives insist on personal responsibility as the solution to poverty, while liberals advocate public generosity. Wallis argues that this is not an either/or situation; instead it is a both/and. Personal responsibility must be taught and stressed, because unlike the rich, the poor do not have the resources to buy second chances and do-overs. Furthermore, public generosity must be available to give second-chances to those who make mistakes. This is grace, and it should not be a respecter of economic status.

Question: Is Wallis right? Are the options of personal responsibility and public generosity false choices? How can a society dispense grace without it becoming license? How can personal responsibility be encourages without falling into legalism?

Wallis going one further, in my opinion, addressing a deeper layer that seems to be ignored in the common political conversation. He talks about the systemic issues that must be confronted prophetically: the unbounded reign of corporations whose only motive is profit; the systemic racism that remains forty years after Civil Rights and 140 years after Civil War; rampant individualism and consumerism that isolates people from their neighbors. These sorts of problems are ignored, because they form the foundation of modern America. Addressing these problems would require a fundamental change in our way of living, of governing, and of doing business. Change of this magnitude is difficult. No one wants to rebuild the house when you can simply redecorate the living room.

Question: How can these foundational issues be addressed? I think back to Wallis’ earlier chapter on changing the wind (Chapter 2: A Lack of Vision). How can we change the wind, so that these issues will be noticed and addressed?

Finally, another quote from the book:

The poor have been virtually missing in action from American religion and politics. The shame of American poverty can be overcome, but not without first ending the liberal/conservative warfare and transforming the fruitless poverty debate with good theology and spiritual commitment. ignoring the poor has fundamentally distorted the theology and practice in the churches of the affluent nations and thus made any prophetic role impossible. In contract, the priority of the poor among the fat-growing churches in the developing world has been key to their success and their prophetic energy. The Bible suggests that the poor can literally save the faith of the churches, which could then help to “heal the nations” - perhaps the most critical spiritual and social task in a world so deeply and dangerously divided.

WALP: Calling All Emergent Bloggers

Can’t get enough? Heed the call from Willzhead:

There’s gonna’ be a Blogapolooza in Nashville.

If you are going to be at the Nashville Emergent Convention and you are a blogger, then the place to be for lunch on Thursday is at the Blogger Forum. So as not to be totally biased, there are other choices. Read about them here. But if you are a blogger, would you want to be anywhere else? (link)

‘Nuff said.

[UPDATE] The Convention has begun, and Adam @ pomomusings has the first on-site post I’ve found. Also, the convention website is compiling a list of bloggers in attendance.

RCL: Year A: Seventh Sunday of Easter: Ascension Sunday

[This week's lectionary readings]

Bibbulkyalglican has this to say:

It struck me today during the Daily Office what an extra-ordinary vote of confidence in human beings (or th disciples at least) the Ascension is. God having sufficient confidence in just a few men and assorted othe “witnesses” who were mainly female to leave them to get on with task of creating the Kingdom here on earth. [link]

Not much I can add to this. May we all remember how much God trusts us.

Book: Ann Rice: Christ the Lord

I read this in the May 13th issue of Entertainment Weekly:

After decades of writing dense novels about witches, vampires, and other paranormal beings, the gothic author is tackling an even more supernatural subject: Jesus Christ. Rice’s Christ the Lord, due out in november from Random House… will tell the story of the Christian savior’s early years in his own words. Rice… explains her motives in a lengthy letter that will accompany advance review copies of the book this summer.

An excerpt of EW’s exclusive excerpt of that letter:

I’m not a priest. I can’t be one. I’ll never be able to go to the altar of the Lord and say the words of consecration at Mass, “This is my body. This is my blood.” No, I can’t work that magnificent Eucharistic miracle. But in humility, I have attempted something transformative which we writers dare to call a miracle in the imperfect human idiom we possess. It’s to bring Him here in the form of a story, and that story is Christ The Lord.

*****

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Quote: Philip Yancey: A Bow and a Kiss

From Christianity Today Magazine:

An album [Matt] Redman released in 1998, The Friendship and the Fear, takes its title from a verse in Psalm 25: “The friendship of the Lord is for those who fear him.” Redman continues exploring the borderland between friendship and fear, for authentic worship encompasses both. It is the proper response when a holy God extends to flawed human beings an invitation to intimacy. In the Hebrew Old Testament, the primary word for worship means “to bow down in reverence and submission.” And in the New Testament, the most common Greek word for worship means “to come forward to kiss.” Between those two—or combining both—lies our best approach to God. [emphasis mine]

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